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Pranic Healing for Relationships
Relationships by definition are not always romantic. As adults we have numerous relationships to manage and balance – be it with relatives, neighbours, friends, co-workers, business associates, and even our children. Strained relationships are usually tricky and sometimes unpleasant… specially if they are with people who we interact with for most of our waking days such as family members and colleagues and co-workers at office.
Strained relationships with others are more often than not upsetting and are a source for emotional pain to many. Master Choa Kok Sui recognized this problem and therefore created several tools and techniques within the Pranic Healing System to help people harmonize and create better relationships. The various techniques provided in the school have been seen to heal and fix relationships.
Healing Relationships: The Energetic Approach
Relationships have much more than just a physical and intellectual dynamic. We are living in an ocean of energy. Energy is pervasive and has a tendency to affect every facet of our life… including our relationships. Have you ever observed that there are some people that make you feel positive and nice whenever you meet them? Have you also noticed that some people have you feel low and upset? The reasons that this happens is because all relationships are finally based on an exchange of energy given that even thoughts and emotions are also energy. If you want to understand this concept in more detail, then you may review this article titled Understanding Thought Forms and Thought Entities in our online magazine.
Energy: The Hidden Dynamic in Relationships
All relationships have a hidden dynamic. This hidden dynamic is energy. Have you ever observed that there are some people that make you feel positive and nice whenever you meet them? Have you also noticed that some people have you feel low and upset? The reason that this happens is because all relationships are finally based on an exchange of energy. Even words, thoughts and emotions have energy. Hence whatever you say, think or feel about a person also has a tendency to affect the other person (and hence the relationship with the other person).
Positive relationships reflect intimacy in every aspect of togetherness. The energy of a loving couple in an intimate relationship blends in a harmonious way, allowing love and good emotions to flow between them easily and freely. Conversely, when a couple is in a poor relationship, arguing and fighting, the energy fields don’t blend and flow. They actually clash and repel, manifesting as even more painful friction.
MCKS utilised some of the esoteric techniques to disintegrate the negative thoughts and emotions between people. This helps empower individuals to react less to negative energies, while promoting positive harmonious energy to flow freely between both parties in a relationship.
Harmonizing Relationships using the Twin Hearts
One of the techniques which has proven is the Meditation on Twin Hearts. In one case a woman actually credits Meditation on Twin Hearts with saving her marriage. When she discovered Meditation on Twin Hearts she was experiencing a very difficult emotional period. She and her husband were contemplating divorce. Hurt, resentment and separation plagued the relationship with her husband. She used to happily prepare and eat dinner with her husband each night and she could not bring herself to do it even once in months. Relationship anxiety and doubt filled their hearts and it seemed that the relationship could not go on. She was instructed to practice Meditation on Twin Hearts daily, and to visualize her husband sending blessings of love, understanding, happiness, and forgiveness. She followed the instructions. In about a month she started noticing a major transformation in her emotions. Where there was once resentment and doubt, she was experiencing forgiveness and hope. She started actively working on the relationship with her husband and felt moved enough to start cooking dinner regularly again. Over time, they were able to resolve the deep rift that separated them and begin working constructively on their relationship. The woman attributes the shift in her emotions, her attitude towards her husband and her saved marriage to Meditation on Twin Hearts and its effect on her heart.
The technology of blessing and forgiving is very powerful and can also be applied in a multitude of other scenarios. Thousands of practitioners of the Meditation on Twin Hearts have reported improved relationships with their relatives, co-workers and even supervisors through the use of this powerful technique.
Another powerful technique is to do with forgiveness. In any relationship, the closer two people get, more are the chances of friction. People often have different viewpoints, value systems and thought processes. Owing to these there are often disagreements on minor and major issues which causes friction between people. This friction sometimes manifests as disappointment, anger, frustration, and lack of trust.
According to MCKS the lubricant for any relationship is love – or more specifically the virtue of Loving Kindness and Non-Injury. Through loving thoughts, loving words, and loving actions one can transform the relationship. It needs to be stressed that love is not necessarily romantic. Being loving also entails being tolerant, nurturing, kind and patient with the other person, and most importantly practicing forgiveness. This is true for every relationship that you are in – be it with your spouse, your sibling or your co-workers. When we practice this virtue, our tendencies to become angry or to lose patience are gradually eliminated. When external circumstances and people can no longer stir up our emotions, we can truly be peaceful and healthy.
You can read more about the importance of forgiveness in the article titled Forgive and Forget: The Importance of Forgiveness on our online magazine.
In addition to Meditation on Twin Hearts, MCKS also provided a powerful tool in the form of such as Relationship Healing which is taught in Pranic Psychotherapy. Relationship Healing which aids in rapid removal of negative thoughts and emotions between people. Once these negative thoughts and negative emotions are released, then the relationship starts improving.
Also, MCKS realized that when people have relationship issues they sometimes tend to (consciously and unconsciously) project negative thoughts and emotions on others. This is why he created Practical Psychic Self Defence to enable us to protect ourselves from such negative energies.
Learn Pranic Healing
Workshops including Basic Pranic Healing, Pranic Psychotherapy, Practical Psychic Self Defence, and Achieving Oneness With The Higher Soul provide tools and techniques to alleviate conditions related to relationship problems in our life. Detailed descriptions of these workshops provide more information on how these workshops can help you.
Learning Pranic Healing is like learning driving. The introductory two-day Basic Pranic Healing workshop provides an intensive and systematic approach to learn and apply healing techniques on themselves and others. The concepts and techniques are thoroughly clarified using a simple cookbook approach which makes learning practical, engaging and most importantly a lot of fun.
There are a significantly large number of applications on how Pranic Healing can benefit you in everyday life. You can read about some of the experience on our testimonials page. Answers to frequently asked question on Pranic Healing can be accessed here. We joyfully urge you to explore the benefits of Pranic Healing for yourself.